Growing up, I struggled with Confidence. Growing up in a prominently white neighborhood, not many people looked like me and this made me want to just blend in and look like everyone else. I wanted to straighten my hair, cover up my freckles, and try to talk in a different vernacular. I hate my dad for the ‘Skinner’ nose and overall just wish I could be invisible.
My…my….my….. how things have changed!!!
I am so Confident now that sometimes people think I am ‘stuck up’, conceited and unapproachable. I don’t like this either but it is what it is…..for I am a CONFIDENT Capricorn!
I AM CONFIDENT!!!
When I walk, I walk tall with my head up, chest out and with an air of Confidence.
I am Confident in who I am;
I am Confident in what I am capable of;
I am Confident with my short curly hair;
I am Confident in the freckles on my face (yes black people have freckles too!);
I am Confident in my big nose;
I am Confident in the way I speak (I speak proper English, NOT ‘like a white girl!);
I am Confident in my beauty (on the outside and on the inside);
I am Confident!
Yes! It is Wednesday and that means Wednesday Word hosted by Deb.
Today’s word: CONFIDENT
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Thank you for sharing your transformation into becoming a confident woman with us. I think confidence is a beautiful thing.
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Yes it is!!
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I love your confidence you show! I think it looks great on you! You have worked so hard and why not let all that hard work show in how you feel about yourself! Keep it up lady!
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Thanks Tricia!!!
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I think women in particularly can be harshly judged for coming across as too confident. Luckily I don’t let that stop me – and neither should you!
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I LOVE your angle on confidence 😉 Arrogance is so ugly, and I do NOT see that in you at all 😉 I am so in awe of your fitness, you have a great deal of strength and stamina 😉
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Thank you so much Kim. You would be suprised how often I get…..’you are so nice, I used to think you were mean/stuck up/ full of yourself’…etc.
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What a wonderful story of transformation. I believe as we get older the confidence comes. I know that has been the case for me as well…thanks for sharing. I’m teaching my kids to have confidence even when they are the minority where we live. I think we’ve done well.
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Thank you! Good job with your kiddies…so important!
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LOVE THIS! I’m not there yet, but I hope to one day say most of those phrases and mean them too. I truly believe you can do anything when you have enough confidence!
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It took me a long time to find my confidence too! Running has really helped make me a more confident and proud person. Great post!
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thanks!
I am working on my running confidence… a work in progress!
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You are fabulous; you’re so right to own it!
It took me a minute to embrace my natural hair too but I think confidence comes with maturity. Enjoy being you.
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I can only imagine what growing up must have been like feeling like an outsider- I’m sorry you went through that! I was the unpopular kid in middle school because I was nerdy so I have a bit of experience in lacking confidence. This carried on to high school in that I pretended to be someone I wasn’t because I desperately wanted people to like me. However, running has changed all that for me! The older we get, the more life lessons we learn and the less we care about what other people think!!
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Skinner is a family name for me! And we don’t like our Skinner nose either! LOL.
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haha!
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I love that you found yourself instead of just trying to blend in! You know what I say, confidence is the best accessory! You got it!
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Thanks!
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I’ve always thought of you as very confident! I love it 🙂
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Thanks!
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I can relate to growing up in an all-white neighborhood and not feeling that confident. Glad that you’re feeling confident now!
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I am a capricorn too and have lots of confidence. Maybe they do go together ?
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yes they do!!!
Capricorns rule!!
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I have a big nose too. It’s a Jewish thing. My sister actually had a nose job!
Growing up I was teased for my curvy body, but I have learned to love it (mostly).
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